Real life Dating vs MP

[LuvThosePurpleShoes]

I know one MP outside very very well. We are really great friends. One thing she says is that she is sick and tired of guys trying to get laid. She wants to be appreciated as more than a piece of ass. Even more so now that she is out of the biz.

I am sure many MPs enjoy their work - she got into it for money and money only - she could not stand what she was doing.

People are different though.


One thing to remember, if u get extra special treatment from an MP - she does not have to do that.


I had a conversation with this MP once - she asked me to play role reversal - imagine you are a male SP - imagine how many women would walk in the door that you would actually want to be with? If someone did walk in that showed something special, you would probably want them to return, right?

 

[Kass86]

Saw Mp today and I think the friggin planet moved for both of us.

It just does not get any better, some real chemistry.

Anyway, have 2 real life dates coming up... One we talked for about 2 hours last night, well really she did most of the talking, it was hard to get stuff in, if you know what I am saying. She is nice though and we have lots in common. She wants to hook up real soon, asap. She seems to be a good match, but i am a bit scared it might be she needs someone financially. Just a fear, that is all. Will go in with an open mind.

The other one next week... wants me to visit. Concerns on my part. But what the heck, will go. No valid fears... just the gut talking. Guess it is the married woman thing. Just been there before and experienced lack of deiscretion.

Maybe I will get a pleasant surprise, so I must talk myself into going in with an open mind.

I have made up my mind though. My MP is #1 and she stays no matter what.

 

[Pompal 09.]

Ok,


You talk to one extensively, then all of a sudden she drops out of sight.

You go out with #2, whom you've been talking with for a while.
It actually goes great. You talk more. Then you don't hear from her for a few days. Calls out of blue. You go out again. Great.
Then it starts accelerating too fast. She has 3 small kids all under 6, and you have to diplomatically tell her we will take it slow..... WE have to get along, if we get along, the kids won't be an issue. But this is so early into it.

Then #1 starts calling.

And Old girlfriend starts calling - who by the way is living with some one.


It gets worse because I won't tell you about the phone acquaintances.

Plus the one who wants to be good friends.

It is so fucked up - either no one calls on one day, or everyone calls.

I probably tried too many sources, but am kind of inexperienced at this.

However #2 and I get along great. I just hope we actually find time to go out - we manage once every week or two.... she is just divorced, working 3 kids.
I do not want to gets hopes too high, but #2 (second 1 contacted)
seems to have great potential. I just want us to take it real slow, which given our scheules, might be easy to do. We do talk often.

Maybe now time to narrow things down?

Also my special MP - no way will I give that up. The perfection that everyone struggling to reach.

Point is real life dating is a mess - you have to put tons of time into it.

It may be worth it in the end???? Who knows.

I think my MP said it right... we see each other every week, talk once or twice in between, and there is no stress of a relationship happening, so it ends up being perfect for both of us. I guess given what we do together, and frequency, it really is a very special relationship.

Real life dating - any one feel the same?

 

[Jen K]

You're starting to remind me of Joel from Risky Business who makes a case to all his friends that paying for it is the way to go...

kkarn/

 

[rodneychristian2]

Was Joel the guy that played Brian Flanagan in Cocktail?

 

[eric mayer]

Nope, but he was a cool cool guy,

I had a woody for Elizabeth Shue for years after that movie. She was soooo hot in Adventures in Baby Sitting. Many-a-time I yanked-the-chicken to that betamax tape.

kkarn/

 

[Mommy to be - May 16]

Believe it or not have not seen that flick.... will now.

God, I Love Elizabeth.

Anyway, I woke up in the middle of night and could not sleep. A nightmare.... real -life dates end up getting serious and there goes half of everything.

Really worries me, especially given situation of dating someone divorcing 3 kids

 

[Pompal 09.]

Who do you know that has a good marriage after 10 years?

See your MP.

 

[bamjo]

I do not know why I find this so funny, but I do.

Thought it would be a nice break.

My Mom apparently was pretty hot in her day I am told.

Well she's older now and widowed.

Her and my Dad's best friends (a couple) had a major falling out.

Seems he was over all the time to help my Mom with fix-ups etc.

Well I guess, he had a few condoms in the old tool box.

Now his Mrs. is pissed and won't let him see my Mom.

Forgive me - I digress - just found this funny.

(Please don't PM for her phone number).

 

[Witches]

Yes, what I have discovered is Real Life Dating is tons more complicated and there is so much more at stake than the good old days.

I know seeing an MP outside work is complicated.

But real life dates are very complicated too. And if you get serious, a huge financial risk.

Never really expected this to be honest.

I think it best if you can proceed slow - enjoy dating and not let things accelerate.

Me, I have to learn to say no or slow down.

Will give you and example - once a cute little girl came to the door selling girl guide cookies. Her Mom. with her, was a knock out, so I bought so many I ended up freezing them.

I am lucky trucks did not unload skids on my drive way.



Yup I am positive.... never ever ever abandon MPs - you do not know how good they are!

 

[theologynut]

Go to those married women.

Only trouble is when they are sloppy with discretion and live in or husband finds out,

 

[Lauren H]

Ok here we go.

I met 3 women through an on line service.

Have been contacting them for a while so we know each other now.

Had a date at Square One with one last Saturday.

Now we get along, but......

My God, she talks so much you can not get a word in and,

in the back of my mind, I have a fear she is looking for a meal ticket, and the issue of money kept coming up and up, and I did not quite believe some of her stories about "Money coming in".

At any rate, we agreed to a second extended date, TBA.

PS.... the women at Square One were absolutely unbelievable on Sat.... I think she caught me distracted once or twice.... not good.


OK 2nd one....

Is married, makes no bones about she wants sex and sex only.

She is not ugly, but not MP standard.

Very average.

Honestly do not know what to do here.

I am not in the habit of using people for sex - I have a fear of her attaching herself, I suppose.


3rd One,

Wants to talk for months and years first.... is a real romantic type

"OH please answer me".



TO COMPLICATE MATTERS

My wife wants to work things out with me.

To be frank, in my mind we are done, i would only do this for the kids.

AND GET THIS

I am absolutely head over heels with my MP.

I do not have this feeling with the others.

Honestly.... I am content with her.... she is perfect for me.

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Whew, this has all been mentally draining, but the bell went at the end of the round, and my trainer wiped me down. I feel much better now. (You should see my trainer).

Bottom line - it is a jungle out there - the dating scene I mean.

I cannot make any sense out of all this, but I am still smiling.

Feel free to advise me, especially if you have been through some of this.

I need to rest to prepare for battle.