Waxing or sugaring, I've had them both and let me say this: you better get the hand job first because after the practitioner literally rips your pubic hair out, roots and all, you likely won't be interested in a hand job. And, if you are, well, it takes all kinds

I would suggest these things don't really go together.
Also, after care is important. It is suggested you don't get a hot shower or bath for between 24 - 48 hours or don't exercise after.
This is from a popular sugaring website:
"avoid anything that might stress the skin in the area – friction, sweating, excessive heat, lotions with chemical scents, etc.
For a few days, let your skin and follicles recover and go easy on them. After the third day, you can return to a normal routine."
If you can't wait a few days, forget waxing/sugaring and just shave yourself - did it for years, not anymore!
If you frequent Spas/Incalls/bodyrubs etc... being clean and tidy down there is sure to help your mileage.
It may be a bit painful initially, but it gets easier and it is definitely worth the effort IMO.
I know a place and the young woman does an incredible job. They mostly do women but she has quite a few men as well.
However, it is not a place you go for any kind of sexual tease or release!
Also they are located in the center of Toronto so you have streetcar access or if driving there is "Green P" parking so...
If you can be respectful and not even allude to sexual services, DM me and I'll give you the details...