Some of you circle jerk idiots need a lesson, and I'm here to give it.

[LostInnocence]

I would never accept my girlfriend sucking and fucking 1000s of dicks each year. Call me weird, but why would I accept a working-whore as a girlfriend when I could have a non-whore girlfriend instead? Would you prefer a 10 year old car with 200,000k that is a car-sharing vehicle, or would you like a brand new car, with 0k that only you drive and own?

When you shop, do you buy the tool that has been opened, used and returned (OUR)? Or do you buy the tool that is BNIB? And if you did buy the OUR item, would you let everyone in your neighbourhood use it at their whim?

And my preference has nothing to do with my small penis. I just like to own things I invest in instead of investing in them but having someone else borrow it from me every day.

But turn that around... would you rather pay $120 to spend a half an hour with her or have her come home to you at the end of the night?

How many thousands of dollars have you given Angela, and yet you want her to marry you. You're okay with her having sex with hundreds of other guys now and you pay her... if she wanted to live with you now, while continuing her work, you would say no? Are you really that stupid?

 

[Ursus]

2 years ago, she asked me to be her boyfriend. I said No.

She said she understands my No answer because it would not be fair to me if she still worked. She gets it. I get it.

I will continue to spend money on her because she is #1. And I am willing to pay for #1.

 

[Hangdai]

I tell them I would be too jealous to be their real boyfriend while they worked at the spa, but!

I'll be your weekly workplace boyfriend, so no more room fee and tips, only gifts.
And since I'm very busy and a terrible gift shopper, I'll just give you money each week (the same amount I've been paying) and you find something nice to buy yourself.

 

[krayjee]

I tell them I would be too jealous to be their real boyfriend while they worked at the spa, but!

I'll be your weekly workplace boyfriend, so no more room fee and tips, only gifts.
And since I'm very busy and a terrible gift shopper, I'll just give you money each week (the same amount I've been paying) and you find something nice to buy yourself.

haha ..that's no different than what I asked all the MPAs "can u be my 90 min girl friend"... Most say yes gladly. They said they are my part time girlfriends.

 

[LostInnocence]

Where do you go for 90 minute girlfriends? I know you like a good massage with fun added... Do you count the massage part as part of the girlfriend time?

I say this because I go to Flirt Spa regularly, almost always 60 minutes, and even that doesn't seem long enough for me. Premier's 40-minute sessions feel short, although the mileage there is better. I've enjoyed them, but I like the slower ralexed visits better... someday might do 90 at Flirt...

 

[krayjee]

Where do you go for 90 minute girlfriends? I know you like a good massage with fun added... Do you count the massage part as part of the girlfriend time?

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If you read my reviews, you will find out easily where and which places I go for 90 min GFs. I don't mention or post anything lately about them bcuz it crosses the line conflict of business. I don't believe in shilling for the place I work for and getting paid, it could be either part time or full time. If working for free, it's a different story. La La land is another new place I go lately. There could be one more new one opening by next week. Will keep you guys posted.

 

[topo112]

I don't get it, Ursus. Boyfriends get to hang out with them and have sex for free, go on vacations together. You'd rather pass that up and still pay $120/hh once a week instead? Because they're still doing what they're doing with other people for a living.

I'd rather RT came to my home at the end of a shift to spend the night than I visit her at her spa.

That's not fair!!! I've "dated" a couple of mpas and i've never got anything for free and I even gave them presents, haha. I guess their "real" boyfriends are the ones who get everything free. Some of These girls have techniques for getting the most out of foolish hearts ha ha ha!!!

 

[DickSlinger]

Ursus is right. If girl really loves guy she will quit her spa job for him. Not be a bitch like RT and say accept my job or leave. Its not fair to men. Most likely these guys have no other options so stay. The problem is spa girls are selfish. Only think of theirselves and lining pockets with cash. These men dating spa girls need to up and leave if they don't change for them. A lot of them are passive betas and their GF runs the show.

 

[Ursus]

When a girl says 'I still want to work. I like my job', she is telegraphing to you that she will only give your a portion of her effort. She is telling you that you will invest more and she will not be willing to invest the same.

So, you walk away from that type of situation. Unless you have low self-esteem.

 

[topo112]

When a girl says 'I still want to work. I like my job', she is telegraphing to you that she will only give your a portion of her effort. She is telling you that you will invest more and she will not be willing to invest the same.

So, you walk away from that type of situation. Unless you have low self-esteem.

Someone should write a country song about this situation. Just saying!!!

 

[mjazn]

What a thread! Informational, educational, and with great entertaining value.

 

[Slitman]

Wow ... so much drama it's entertaining and informative at various levels.

Lets be respectful and cut the name calling etc. But to each his own. If you want respect RT you got to earn it as well. Calling someone a fgt doesn't add much cred to your argument or point you are trying to make. I'm sure you are much tougher than that. Be the bigger person IMO.

I can appreciate and understand where RT is coming from in her first post. That said, you can't have your cake and eat it too when it comes to building and keeping a good steady client base. We gents will talk and compare notes just as you ladies share amongst yourselves good vs bad clients. I have been a lurker on the massage scene until now. SP's have posted rates unlike MP's who don't for extras. You either can afford to pay and play or you move on to someone within your budget. I have heard some mpa ladies capitalize on naive fellas by asking for higher rates. $100 for fs is the norm (yes?) so why wouldn't someone challenge it if you are looking for $160 when that's what other ladies are asking whom are popular let's say ... or your rate is known to be $100 amongst your regulars. Hence the info shared on this board and others.

Conversely, if you provide a consistent experience, you're hot etc etc ... this forum and its pervs will also help promote and market you! Can't have it all babe.

I agree us hobbyists should tone down all the gory details in our reviews and be a little less explicit. I get that some guys are nice, you click and they get more mileage. Then you get some smelly oagre walking in expecting the same because they read so and so received it. This game is YMMV and I usually state that in my SP reviews. Sure I've received extra mileage others don't get. Am I the only one ? Heck no. But I will keep it on the down low if requested which I'm guessing is one of the points you were trying to make.

Not everyone is capable of finding that right balance to please everyone unfortunately. Egos get in the way as some like to brag? .. or try and bullshit for a variety of reasons. Pervs will always want the gory details and the ladies want less. It is what it is. Accept it.