Hello and thanks for starting this thread! I read all your responses and honestly I hope I get to visit you one day! You sound just like the attendant I would want to have a session with; educated, honest, and self-caring.
I hope you still check the thread bevause I have a few questions. Apologies if they've been asked before or if they sound weird in any sense.
1. How would you feel about having a session witg a virgin guy? Would you find that personally a turn on or a turn off?
2. How would you feel about outfit requests? Say, for example, if a client asked you to have a hijab scarf on during the session (some wild example I guess)?
3. What's your own favorite way of ending the session?
4. In general, what advice do you have for someone wanting to go to a parlour for the first time? And I mean any advice other than the two main ones (be clean and polite).
Thank you!
1. I have popped someone's cherry. He was better at sex than most clients who have been seeing sex workers for years due to the falsified positive feedback warping their own perspective of their skills.
2. Most girls are open to outfit requests as long as bring it new, sealed, in the package.
3. Light chit chat and a quick hug if client wants one before leaving.
4.
- Bring $500-$1,000 cash in 50s and 100s - 5s and 10s make us feel disrespected and cheap, enough to pay the door fee and enough to pay for whatever service you want in the room. One of the most frustrating things for both parties is when you don't have enough cash to get what you really want.
- Be direct in asking for what you want and after the amount has been stated, you'll get brownie points for paying up front (you can just put the cash somewhere you can both see it). This always makes me 100x more comfortable as one of my biggest anxieties with someone I haven't seen before is that they will try to pull something when it comes time to pay. In my first week of working, despite having clearly stated rates, a client tried to leave without paying, stating that he doesn't pay for covered services. Only after I was on the brink of tears did he pay, saying that he was only doing so because of my nationality.
- Take a proper shower including pits, dick, balls, taint and ass (I can't believe I have to say this to grown men but 9/10 clients REEK in one of these areas and it does impact your level of service) and shave your entire groin area if you want extras - you *will* have a better experience.
If there is mouthwash in the room and/or if it is offered to you, use it. It will set the attendant's mind at ease and show that you respect her enough to be hygienic.
- On a related note, if the attendant has odor anywhere, you may wish to avoid interacting with that area but that's an individual risk management decision. Plenty of sex workers work with active infections (chlamydia, gonorrhea and bacterial vaginosis being the most common).
- Even if you don't partake in extras, at least leave $20 if the service was good. We all get our hair, nails, massage etc done on a regular basis and tip our service providers - there is no reason you shouldn't either, especially considered the intimate nature of what we are providing to you.