warts

[Julie]

anyone worry about contacting genital warts during a BS?

 

[~21 weeks prego!~]

That seems like a stupid time to start worrying. As long as you're having fun you might as well enjoy yourself. Why spoil a good time?

 

[Nes S]

3 "NO's"

 

[aholm]

I worry that the earth will get struck by a comet while I am laying on the table, and that the last thing I will ever see will be a beautiful, naked lady. That would be so,so bad.....well, like the man said, a stupid time to start worrying. Just have fun, and remember, it's a tough, tough world, and you'll never get out of it alive.

 

[xzc426]

I agree. Worry about it later, not during.

 

[fatmas]

.... or even-better - simply avoid high-risk activities so you aren't in a position to worry during or after.

It really is possible to have lotsa fun without crossing into risky activity - I promise.



- don't do anything that involves genital to genital contact
- if you get into a position like "Italian" - your attendant and you should be aware of where "things" are located - don't rub too low.

http://www.hasslefreeclinic.org/GenitalWarts.php

There are always going to be risks if you play - but inform yourself and don't partake in anything high-risk so you're not stressed-out during your session.


most of the activities that are considered to be "within MP-limits" (hate that silly term but whateva...) are very low-risk.... Pussy-slides are high-risk. I am adamantly against them but unfortunately not everyone is.


(side note - I've heard it from the escort side of the game several times over the years.... but a phone call I got the other day floored me.... I get requests for fs and stuff - a request doesn't bother me - fair question - I simply clarify the type of massage I offer and all is fine... but I literally had someone trying to talk me into bbfs over the phone. I can't believe some guys actively seek this out =( from some stranger in the sex-industry no-less....)

I know you don't want to spend the session worrying - and there should be no need to... Respect one another and yourselves to know where to draw the line. If you don't think you can control yourself talk to your attendant and set some ground rules before hand.

I appreciate when a client asks me about what precautions I take to ensure we both stay healthy. I would much-prefer to deal with a somewhat paranoid client than someone who I have to be on high alert with because he is pushing me to cross my personal boundaries.

I have had a few instances when clients were worrying after our session - panicking as to whether or not what we did was safe because they felt too real... I will show them what I did and where things were and they breathe a sigh of relief... it's totally possible to do it right yet low-risk.

 

[umad???]

Jen ,
You are the best! You are the most considerate Girl, I have meet in this industry. Everyone should know how much you truly care about clients.
I am glad I have found you!
I have always thought of bringing this up, but I enjoyed my sessions with you, way too much, to stop and ask..... Dumb is me.
I have an other question, but I will ask for next time we meet.
Thanks

 

[flying scot]

you're way too kind - but thank-you sincerely xo

I've got the best group of clients out there - it's easy to care. I am grateful..

... feel free to ask at any time mister

 

[Skidoo]

Just to clarify, I do not spend all my time thinking about doomsday scenarios but I do like to be safe. I was not sure wether to steer clear of a sliding in certain areas of the body as some sessions can get a bit heated I wanted some insite.
Thanks for the info and the link Jennifer

 

[hallowtim]

if a smoking hot lady is sliding her body next to mine the last thing i think about is warts.

 

[nsw]

So, inform yourself about the issue, then make up your mind before the opportunity arises.

If you're young enough, you might be eligible for the HPV vaccination. That shot seems like a must-have for anyone who isn't strictly monogamous.

 

[Ana P]

Unlikely

If she has the virus and was playing with herself before HJ then perhaps otherwise no

Post questions in health section for an answer from a health nurse

 

[Danie]

The sad thing for MPAs who provide risky activities is that the most common types of STDs are more-easily spread to women than men and they have the potential to do more damage to a woman's body than a man's.

That's not an excuse for you guys to throw caution to the wind... but just-cause for us girls to find creative ways to give our clients great sessions without unnecessarily risking our health. When girls are letting their clients think they had a great time after getting stupid-risky types of services, they're taking the easy way out imho.

... then again - short cuts often don't end up being the best route.

It really should be mandatory that all of us; providers and clients take a bit of time to educate ourselves.