Tip???

[Noobguy]

Ok, so i made my very first appointment, im super nervous and hope i dont get performance anxiety hahaha but my question is , how much do I tip? I dont want to be cheap but i dont want to get crazy either

 

[Cabinmon]

$25-$80 I would say. Depending on the upsell and the massage lady. Some charge more for topless and beyond. Some will demand a price, others leave it up to you

 

[Bob the Knob]

Don't embarrass yourself. If you like the lady and would plan to see her again, tell her and give her tip of at least $60 on your first visit.

It will pay dividends as you continue to see her. If you get to the point of full nudity, touching , maybe body slides, a $120 tip is reasonable.

 

[Qster]

If I get happy, $40 is the minimum I have ever tipped any RMT in recent months, as Bob had mentioned, if I plan on seeing her again & again, I would go $60. When there is anything beyond basic fully-clothed happiness is involved, the number will go up and Bob's number is pretty much dead on by my experience. A full nudity hour will run you $80 for the basic massage plus $120ish for the body slide with no BJ or FS. So pretty much $200 (or a little bit more), pretty close in price to a FS experience at an Asian micro. If you are thinking that you want to go that high, think about going to an AMP or Micro instead; the massage is not good but full service is guaranteed.

 

[Cabinmon]

I have a policy. If I’m looking for sex I’ll go to a Chinese micro and spend $200. If I’m in need of a great massage and ten minutes of fun, I will go to a massage lady that offers that option. But maybe due to my Scottish ancestry I can’t fathom paying $200 and up for ten minutes of sexual favours.

 

[socalguy]

There really is no set price and most will take as little as $20 for a tip. Just remember if you're tipping that low then you won't get any extra effort from the girl and will be rushed for time. I'll do the $20 tip if I'm trying a new place and I end up with a masseuse that I don't like. For the regulars that always provide me with great service then I'll tip $60.

 

[Noobguy]

Don't embarrass yourself. If you like the lady and would plan to see her again, tell her and give her tip of at least $60 on your first visit.

It will pay dividends as you continue to see her. If you get to the point of full nudity, touching , maybe body slides, a $120 tip is reasonable.

Im headed to an AMP . I assume i tip after session

 

[Bob the Knob]

Amp is all up front fee, and if you want to tip more, up to you.

 

[Qster]

Im headed to an AMP . I assume i tip after session

AMP is totally different than the RMTs which many of us were talking about. As Bob had mentioned it is fee up front, usually no tipping afterwards, unless you want the girl's private number for future encounters. Regardless of what their ads say about specials and other BS like that, the asking prices may be way up there to start, some would ask as high as $300-320 up front then it is up to your negotiation skills and how busy they are to get back down to a reasonable range around $240ish. Most AMP ladies, unless they are slow, will not take non-full service appointments for less money as they get very little after the house cut, YMMV of course. And, btw, do not expect a massage, lol, it is an AMP, the massage usualy consist of a 10 seconds rub around certain critical part of your anatomy before the real actions start. Like Cabinmon said, if you are looking for full service, try a micro, posted fix fee unless you want addons like MSOG, all in for $200-220 with no bargaining required. For me, AMPs are only good for those last minute, no appointment needed moments.

 

[EnjoyingLife]

Is this guy talking about legit message places or Fs adult places?

Legit massage places, you likely won't get anything, but some places maybe you can. It depends on the lady. The lady likely will ask you and give you the price.

Adult places that offer FS, you pay up front and they give you the price. You can tip in the beginning way more if you want way better service. Or if their service blew your mind, you can tip extra at the end as well.

 

[Bob the Knob]

Here is a tip, regarding tips.

When I see someone for the first time, I pay the agreed amount up front, but when I do I make sure they see I have more cash on me. If possible, I like to keep a $50 on top, so they can clearly see it.

That way if they do extras, sometimes no words are spoken, actions speak louder than words. And I usually walk away quite happy

 

[Albertaman]

Adding some more colour to this discussion. In the RMT type setting a simple happy ending, we all agree is somewhere between 40 and 60, masseuse's clothes mostly on. However imho, if a masseuse is distant, and not into it, there is absolutely no reason to put out the 60. Sadly even 40 is too much. Guys need to get a bit smarter with their use of funds. On the other hand, I've been with therapists where even if they don't remove all their clothes, a lot of mutual touching, fingers at play etc occur, not only at the end, but throughout the massage. These situations in my books calls for far greater generosity. Of course, there is a strong YMMV aspect to these experiences, as the therapists are not working off a menu. The situations that are to be avoided are the "nude" scenarios that suddenly call for a 120 tip, for a few minutes of unclothed tugging, with an unattractive, tired masseuse who hates being touched and you are left wondering why you agreed to such foolishness.

I know that many of you will hit me with the barrage of "but these ladies work so so hard" lines, and "they put up with so much ugliness in us guys" stuff. I disagree. Most of us guys are pretty decent, and behave quite well, and we probably are better groomed and hygienic than the public at large. Some therapists work very hard. But by and large, this sector has drawn in many ladies, especially the Asian populace, that want to make quick money with less effort than it would take working at another type of job.

The solution is to be choosy, and only reward the few ladies that make every effort to take care of you, every time you see them. No excuses. These ladies, I love to spoil with great tips.


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[ChaosFactor]

Adding some more colour to this discussion. In the RMT type setting a simple happy ending, we all agree is somewhere between 40 and 60, masseuse's clothes mostly on. However imho, if a masseuse is distant, and not into it, there is absolutely no reason to put out the 60. Sadly even 40 is too much. Guys need to get a bit smarter with their use of funds. On the other hand, I've been with therapists where even if they don't remove all their clothes, a lot of mutual touching, fingers at play etc occur, not only at the end, but throughout the massage. These situations in my books calls for far greater generosity. Of course, there is a strong YMMV aspect to these experiences, as the therapists are not working off a menu. The situations that are to be avoided are the "nude" scenarios that suddenly call for a 120 tip, for a few minutes of unclothed tugging, with an unattractive, tired masseuse who hates being touched and you are left wondering why you agreed to such foolishness.

I know that many of you will hit me with the barrage of "but these ladies work so so hard" lines, and "they put up with so much ugliness in us guys" stuff. I disagree. Most of us guys are pretty decent, and behave quite well, and we probably are better groomed and hygienic than the public at large. Some therapists work very hard. But by and large, this sector has drawn in many ladies, especially the Asian populace, that want to make quick money with less effort than it would take working at another type of job.

The solution is to be choosy, and only reward the few ladies that make every effort to take care of you, every time you see them. No excuses. These ladies, I love to spoil with great tips.


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Great point's AM and I agree. There are many ladies who have moved into the industry who are only worried about getting the most $ they can in the final 10 minutes and no or very little care about the 50 minutes leading up to it.