Im an Indian woman dating a white guy. Everytime I talk about introducing...

[Rose]

...some friends of mine to him? he always asks about race first. I get a feeling that he does not like to hang out with anyone but only white. Or I am looking too much into it- may be he’s just curious…

 

[sambaxter2007]

Its hard to zoom down on a personality profile based on a single behavior trait.. but here are the possibilities.

1. He is a raging hood wearing white supremacist: Definetly not.
2. He is a closet racist: Very unlikely. He may not openly hate you but then again he would not hang out with you.
3. He is being politically correct: He will hang out with you, but will not take it any further.
4. He wants to tamper with interracial relationships but can be easily bullied into not doing so. He will date you
but will not want to be seen with you in the company of people of his own race, since they might influence him to change
his mind? or he is somewhat ashamed of this setup with you.
5. He thinks of interracial relationships as a novelty and has childlike curosity about it. Its like a "new" thing for him.
He will date you and would probably want to show you off to the people of his color.
6. He is color blind. He wants to date you and doesn't care who you introduce him to.


1,2 he is defintely not.
3 he is probably not
6. He is not, otherwise he would not care for the race.

He could be 4 or 5.. if it is 4, then he is fearful. If it is 5 then you are his "colored" fling.

 

[magul]

You have to ask him this only he can tell if he is racist or not.

 

[Store Brand Mayonnaise]

Ummmm - hes dating an Indian girl, so hes ok being around non-whites. It may be that hes probing to see if you have friends that arent indian. Or maybe he doesnt like blacks or asians, who really knows? If it bothers you, then you need to bring it up and ask him.