Question Ever selected someone that was clearly uncomfortable and what did you do?

[BigRed77]

As the title says, ever selected a massage attendant that was clearly uncomfortable from the start and what did you do? Luckily I've only had this happen maybe twice. One time, it was clear she was uncomfortable when she came in the room by her facial expressions and body language. In my head I'm thinking "do you want me to pick someone else?" and wished I had asked her that, but didn't. Went through with the massage but as you can imagine, it wasn't very good. I only assumed she was "grossed out" by me physically, but who knows, could be any number of reasons, I just assumed it was my physical appearance. A very standard massage w hj, and little to no communication. And because I could tell she was uncomfortable, I didn't touch her at all (thinking more about her than myself, figured I wouldn't make her feel even more uncomfortable). I was quite disappointed though, smoking hot body and felt like a dirty old man after.

 

[joethemechanic]

Yeah, 4-5 times in past 10 years.

I just sit non-aggressive pose and let them start and lead the beginning of the conversation, see what they are comfortable talking about.
If they talk about service, such as (no talking) start taking off clothes, or talk about me removing clothes, I'll ask about showering or something light activity to do together first and get close physically first.
Then just communicate really, figure out why they may be giving off an uncomfortable vibe. Shower them with care not to wet their hair and make it 100% about them in the shower once they pass you the showerhead.

Been various reasons. Some were woken up unexpectedly from sleep. Some were tired and expected hard deep tissue massage. Some been working continuously for a long time no day off. Some thought I was not a nice guy and looked like a mafia boss. LOL. Anyway, just be respectful and express care through conversation. Some may use a phone for translation. I try to be patient and not touch them unexpectedly while they are focused on translating or doing something specific not on my body. Give space. 5/5 by the end their uncomfortable vibe all gone and usually full on GFE by the end, a few of those offered extra releases with only minutes to go when they saw me going hard again.

I had a lot of girlfriends growing up so interacting with girls comes pretty natural to me. It's important to speak and act respectfully. Ask for permission for anything to do with their space and body. Let the girl make all the decisions.

 

[maxusat]

As the title says, ever selected a massage attendant that was clearly uncomfortable from the start and what did you do? Luckily I've only had this happen maybe twice. One time, it was clear she was uncomfortable when she came in the room by her facial expressions and body language. In my head I'm thinking "do you want me to pick someone else?" and wished I had asked her that, but didn't. Went through with the massage but as you can imagine, it wasn't very good. I only assumed she was "grossed out" by me physically, but who knows, could be any number of reasons, I just assumed it was my physical appearance. A very standard massage w hj, and little to no communication. And because I could tell she was uncomfortable, I didn't touch her at all (thinking more about her than myself, figured I wouldn't make her feel even more uncomfortable). I was quite disappointed though, smoking hot body and felt like a dirty old man after.

I pretend it's my first time/act awkward af so they'll leave me alone.