Do women prefer kissing and sexual massages as opposed to straight sex?

[Kaz]

My soon to be wife is taking some massage oils for are honeymoon and I assume she wants a sexual massage.

 

[luv2help]

what's a "sexual" massage? LOL. Massage is massage. Touching each other in an intimate way is what gets your engine going. foreplay, you know? Women need that. Kissing is always nice.

 

[sheloves_dablues]

It's called FOREPLAY.

Get used to it.

 

[Miss M (",)]

no women loves variety - so she's just introducing some other methods to keep it high and interesting!

 

[Libby]

Women like both. A lady needs to be warmed up first! Sometimes she's in a "do me NOW!" mood, but most of the time you'll want to do that little thing called foreplay.

PS... massage oil works as lube. Just use a drop! A little oil goes a long way.

 

[Gringa_uno]

Sexual massages and kisses ,, Mmmmmm delicious and delightful

 

[Alana]

Sometimes women like NORMAL massages. But sometimes we like sexual ones. Normally, women like sexual massages THEN sex it gets women keyed up.

 

[Lauren]

if i had to make a choice between kissing, massage or sex i would pick sex

 

[India]

No i prefer love..but men can do that bit....

 

[Cracker Jack]

They love massages.

 

[Binst is happy]

Personally I hate the word "foreplay". I don't think "the deed" is so important that it should be higher in rang then all other things you can do together.

 

[FancyPants!!!]

I like every way there is.
oils, fine as long as you wash me off later...

 

[u d]

They all go together. Some women need more foreplay to get aroused for sex. The massage / kissing can lead to a very good sexual experience. Straight sex can get boring over time, you have to spice it up.

 

[Down]

I can not answer for all women, but yes I do. I would have sex more with my husband if I just felt like we had more time. I am not saying I want a full out massage all the time, But to me sex is just another job that I have to do . And I love to have sex with my husband but I would love more . I love my husband, and I would do it a lot more if he just showed me more attention. Not just straight to the sexual parts. That is more of a turn off for me. It does not take much to get me aroused but he just will not listen to what I have been telling him . I know one day he will . So I just keep pushing on .Good Luck and Congratulations . A little advice, just really listen to what your soon to be wife really has to say .