A question about Russian and Italian finishes

[Arnak]

Hey all this might be a stupid question but I need some assistance on where to start on how you guys propse getting russian or itailan finishes from mpa's, also the multiple position thing has be at a loss, I figured you lay there and let thing just happen. Never thought you could get up use the chair or sofa in the room to add a new element of fun to the session. Again I know this sounds a bit stupid but after reading review I'm at a loss on how you guys purpose these options to mpa. Do you basically say hey how about you let me rub my dick between you ass cheeks / tits? or how about your rub me down on that sofa? For the most part I only have partaken in the B chain establishments and never really had the cash to take things to far. I have now fell into a bit of money and am going to do a whirlwind weekend of the high class spa's. Ive done my research and am going for BS at all of my stops and want to know how to get these types of finishes without wrecking the mood or pissing off the MPA. Thanks in advance for the guidance again as this may seem to be a bit simple for some of our veteran hobbiers.

Cheers

 

[Prudence B]

A good MPA should take the initiative.

Otherwise, yes, just ask nicely.

 

[Wanna play?]

Agreed - With a good MPA (my definition of a good MPA) you will never have to ask.

However, do not expect that service from all MPAs - some may not feel comfortable performing those services.

 

[ano]

Perfect, so it is that easy, play nice and good things should happen or just ask nice. Thanks as always

 

[hustla_honeyz]

Gems - you strip to nothing, lay down, close your eyes.....finish...you will feel violated after the session.
Good MPAs - fun, open to suggestions, will take the initiative if you're a little shy to ask, will ask you what you like.
Average MPAs - will go by the book, will go by the clock...usually mechanical ( 5 mins back rub...5mins light running of fingers...5 mins of you doing your thing...5 mins slide...5 mins hj if you didn't finish in the slide...5 mins are the time spent on switching positions...you're out in 30mins or 3 mins before )

Bad MPAs - I can't really say much because you'll be out by 10 - 15mins.

Take note that YMMV applies to every MPA from Bad to Gems. If you're going in like you just rolled over a puddle of mud, Gems can turn into Bad mpas within a blink of an eye but that's really not their fault is it?

 

[2010]

You sound like you're gonna pick a 'touching is allowed' option, which is an essential first step some newbies have been known not to grasp. After that, it's a bit free-form, and rich's guide is good. I've always relied on, "I love to touch, I hope you don't mind. Be sure to say the second you do, and I'll stop." After that, the two of you sorta get a feel for it, most of the time.

As The Customer in a good place, after the finances are settled you should find anything from a slight eyebrow lift to a grunted "Russian. Now!" will work. Basically. What will vary is her enthusiasm. Your attention to that front matters more than our advice about positions and finishes.

 

[Unworthy King]

I was thinking along these lines.
A good MPA will know what to do and lead the way.
A really good MPA will engage you in a conversation that will allow you to express exactly what you'd like. As long as you're within her limits, you should be good to go.

 

[India]

Just ask and be polite and if she says no just drop it. The good ones won't be offended mainly because they've dealt with probably much more crazy requests and/or guys. Be polite and have fun.

 

[Punk Princess]

Thanks again everyone, Now Im on the right path. Oldjones just wanted to say your rock, always good intel with no judgment. Looks like I will be off having a fun weekend. I have some reviews up soon.

 

[blesst_624]

I'm just looking for a good Italian finish

 

[lovy<3]

Do some research here. If you are going to a top spa and it is with a girl who has positive reviews here chances are you won't have any problems.

 

[Shane]

Affirmative.

Italian and Russian (especially) finishes are a common if not somewhat standard menu item. However, most girls will be careful with these types of releases for obvious reasons, especially if you're new.

 

[Luveena]

I would have thought the ladies would be a bit more tense offering Italian than Russian.

 

[BrokkenHarted]

agreed,...though i've never encountered any reluctance for an italian slide finish from any MPA within the last year ... i think if the attendant gets a warm fuzzy feeling ( trust factor ) about you there shouldn't be a problem

 

[Jazz]

I am a fan of the italian. So what I do is run my fingers between her buns and say "Can we put him here?" 7 of 10 times the answer is yes, absolutely, of course. 1 in 10 the answer is no. No means no. Sometimes however their is a pause. In this situation I simply say "Let's try it and if you at all feel uncomfortable we will stop". Promising to move forward when you release is something they like to hear as well as being the right thing to do.

BD

 

[Girl]

yes good point ! ... i always re-assure if it's our first session

 

[Pompal 09.]

I don't know about the Italian. A woman has a lot of orifices (at least 3) and related stuff in that area. Are you guys wearing a condom (so asks the non-MP guy)?

 

[Susiepolls2008]

In my day I enjoyed taking a more direct hand in the proceedings. I always found most women (pros and civilians), enjoy being taken charge of....as long as it's done with a sense of enthusiasm, fun and respect. I have to add that it made the session a hell of a lot hotter too, as opposed to just laying there and letting her "suggest" things. But to each his own.

 

[mehdi m]

AH ! ... the voice of reason ....hope it doesn't kill the thread,...good Q though, and I know where your headed dude,... hmmm , somewhat difficult to describe in great detail here in open forum... guess the best way to describe is that "all pre and post contact" is with the "related stuff in the area" rather than the orifices themselves, atleast that's the intention ..... that being said, as i previously stated, I consider myself still somewhat n00bish at the MP game as i've only had maybe 20-25 sessions within the last 12 months, .....IMO and from my experience there is higher risk behavior which occurs on the massage table/room other than the Itallian or Russian moves ....

 

[Jewel]

Compare to my 3 sessions (strictly for research purposes) back in the Dark Ages, you are a seasoned MP veteran. Maybe it is time I update my MP resume, for strictly research purposes of course.