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I❤️SPAs said:

having good hygiene is an ABSOLUTE MUST

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Lalallala said:

Hmm I am definitely not fit. I find being considerate, chatty/flirty, etc works decently well.

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THE MOST ATTRACTIVE DEGREE OF LEANNESS​

THE MOST ATTRACTIVE DEGREE OF MUSCULARITY​

• Women seem to assume very muscular men are vain. But if the man isn’t vain, that assumption would disappear upon getting to know him, removing the disadvantage. Plus, when looking at shirtless dudes posing in trunks, they may appear especially vain, exacerbating the stigma.
• The dominant evolutionary explanation for why women prefer stronger men is that stronger men tend to be more formidable—better at fighting and protecting resources. But if we look at top mixed martial artists, they aren’t anywhere near as muscular as top bodybuilders.
• Dr. Sell’s study was done on college students. It’s unlikely that any of the guys in the sample had outlier muscle-building genetics, making them substantially less muscular than top fitness influencers. Plus, college men haven’t had enough time to reach their genetic muscular potential. It could be that the most muscular men in the stuy weren’t that muscular.
• Some men can reach degrees of muscularity that didn’t exist until recently. Until the 1940s, even world-class bodybuilders paled in comparison to modern natural bodybuilders, let alone the guys on SARMs, steroids, or TRT. There’s no evolved preference for bodies that didn’t exist in the past.

krayjee said:

You may need to work out a bit to be attracted to women. Women judge men with what they see as soon as you walk in to a spa. A kind person always look beautiful in a lady's eyes but they will serve you better if you look lean healthy, kind and generous. . Most Asian ladies like slim and fit athlectic guys, they are not very fond of big masculine guys. Thank God, I am blessed with the looks and body most Asian women like.

THE MOST ATTRACTIVE DEGREE OF LEANNESS​

When we asked women what body fat percentage they found most attractive, 58% chose the body with a flat stomach, and 39% chose the body with abs. The average man is overweight, but only 3% of women chose that body fat percentage. 0% chose the obese body. What’s interesting is that when we surveyed men about female bodies, a small percentage of guys preferred women with higher body-fat percentages. The obese woman got 20 votes (out of 1,072).

THE MOST ATTRACTIVE DEGREE OF MUSCULARITY​

When we asked women which degree of muscularity they were most attracted to, there was a fairly even split between the “athletic” and “strong” body types. 51% of women voted for the athletic build, and 43% voted for the strong build. (Note that I didn’t label the bodies in the survey. Women chose “body 1.” I’m labelling them now when talking about the results.)

There were no votes for the skinny body type, and only 6% of women voted for the strongest body type. This aligns with our previous survey and attractiveness research overall (study). However, there’s one notable exception.

In this study by Dr. Sell et al., there was a linear relationship between strength and attractiveness. The stronger a man was, the more muscular he looked and the more attractive he was. According to Dr. Sell’s results, we’d expect the most muscular man to be the most attractive.

To get to the bottom of the disparity, I spoke with Dr. Sell. After emailing back and forth with him a few times, I think there are a few possible reasons our survey shows a preference for athletic physiques over extremely muscular ones:

• Women seem to assume very muscular men are vain. But if the man isn’t vain, that assumption would disappear upon getting to know him, removing the disadvantage. Plus, when looking at shirtless dudes posing in trunks, they may appear especially vain, exacerbating the stigma.
• The dominant evolutionary explanation for why women prefer stronger men is that stronger men tend to be more formidable—better at fighting and protecting resources. But if we look at top mixed martial artists, they aren’t anywhere near as muscular as top bodybuilders.
• Dr. Sell’s study was done on college students. It’s unlikely that any of the guys in the sample had outlier muscle-building genetics, making them substantially less muscular than top fitness influencers. Plus, college men haven’t had enough time to reach their genetic muscular potential. It could be that the most muscular men in the stuy weren’t that muscular.
• Some men can reach degrees of muscularity that didn’t exist until recently. Until the 1940s, even world-class bodybuilders paled in comparison to modern natural bodybuilders, let alone the guys on SARMs, steroids, or TRT. There’s no evolved preference for bodies that didn’t exist in the past.

Finally, there’s another reason men might be surprised that women aren’t picking the more muscular physiques: men prefer more muscular physiques than women. When we surveyed men on which body types they preferred, they preferred the more muscular “strong” body. This, too, aligns with the results of our previous survey and with attractiveness research overall.

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krayjee said:

You may need to work out a bit to be attracted to women. Women judge men with what they see as soon as you walk in to a spa. A kind person always look beautiful in a lady's eyes but they will serve you better if you look lean healthy, kind and generous. . Most Asian ladies like slim and fit athlectic guys, they are not very fond of big masculine guys. Thank God, I am blessed with the looks and body most Asian women like.

THE MOST ATTRACTIVE DEGREE OF LEANNESS​

When we asked women what body fat percentage they found most attractive, 58% chose the body with a flat stomach, and 39% chose the body with abs. The average man is overweight, but only 3% of women chose that body fat percentage. 0% chose the obese body. What’s interesting is that when we surveyed men about female bodies, a small percentage of guys preferred women with higher body-fat percentages. The obese woman got 20 votes (out of 1,072).

THE MOST ATTRACTIVE DEGREE OF MUSCULARITY​

When we asked women which degree of muscularity they were most attracted to, there was a fairly even split between the “athletic” and “strong” body types. 51% of women voted for the athletic build, and 43% voted for the strong build. (Note that I didn’t label the bodies in the survey. Women chose “body 1.” I’m labelling them now when talking about the results.)

There were no votes for the skinny body type, and only 6% of women voted for the strongest body type. This aligns with our previous survey and attractiveness research overall (study). However, there’s one notable exception.

In this study by Dr. Sell et al., there was a linear relationship between strength and attractiveness. The stronger a man was, the more muscular he looked and the more attractive he was. According to Dr. Sell’s results, we’d expect the most muscular man to be the most attractive.

To get to the bottom of the disparity, I spoke with Dr. Sell. After emailing back and forth with him a few times, I think there are a few possible reasons our survey shows a preference for athletic physiques over extremely muscular ones:

• Women seem to assume very muscular men are vain. But if the man isn’t vain, that assumption would disappear upon getting to know him, removing the disadvantage. Plus, when looking at shirtless dudes posing in trunks, they may appear especially vain, exacerbating the stigma.
• The dominant evolutionary explanation for why women prefer stronger men is that stronger men tend to be more formidable—better at fighting and protecting resources. But if we look at top mixed martial artists, they aren’t anywhere near as muscular as top bodybuilders.
• Dr. Sell’s study was done on college students. It’s unlikely that any of the guys in the sample had outlier muscle-building genetics, making them substantially less muscular than top fitness influencers. Plus, college men haven’t had enough time to reach their genetic muscular potential. It could be that the most muscular men in the stuy weren’t that muscular.
• Some men can reach degrees of muscularity that didn’t exist until recently. Until the 1940s, even world-class bodybuilders paled in comparison to modern natural bodybuilders, let alone the guys on SARMs, steroids, or TRT. There’s no evolved preference for bodies that didn’t exist in the past.

Finally, there’s another reason men might be surprised that women aren’t picking the more muscular physiques: men prefer more muscular physiques than women. When we surveyed men on which body types they preferred, they preferred the more muscular “strong” body. This, too, aligns with the results of our previous survey and with attractiveness research overall.

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Lalallala said:

oh man. I hope to one day improve to the image of obesity in KJ's post.

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krayjee said:

Here is one just taken for you

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Lalallala said:

wtf is this? I am talking about me

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krayjee said:

LOL...I was just trying to piss off a few guys in here who think I am an old fart. So I am letting them know age is just a number. Eat well, sleep well, work out regularly and stay worry free life. Don't sweat for small things . You will never feel old. I still have a body of a 40 yrs old man and I still think I am in my 40 - 50 s. Bruce Lee was my idol in my younger days.

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Pay2Play said:

It’s a bit odd for this dude to be posting his Grinder profile pics on here.

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